One of my best friends, my closest cousin, my 'partner in crime' all throughout high school…
Zari Graham Ventura got married last night! And not just to anyone, but her high school sweat heart and father of her two children. I could not be happier for them!
Congratulation Zari and Michael Casil!
Her are some of my photographs from her bridal shower:
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| Surprise drive up! |
Mother of the bride and my beautiful cousin.
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| Cousins |
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| Sisters to be |
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| Mother and sister in law to be |
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| Bridesmaid Nani. Maid of Honor, me. Bride Zari. Matron of Honor Chelsea. Bridesmaid Raeli. |
Games:
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| What's in your purse? (Gift table in the background) |
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| Blindfolded, check |
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| Lipstick, check |
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| Kiss the Bride's ass, check |
Thank you to everyone who came and helped celebrate Zari getting married!

I couldn't be happier for you Zari!
I have known her my entire life- she is a month and a day older than me. Our dad's were the youngest of five brothers and we grew up going to family parties and playing together.
I have a distinct memory of seeing her at our Grandpa and Grandma Ventura's house for a family Christmas party, after some time passing since I had last seen her. She was wearing camo pants, a metal chocker around her neck, and little buns all around her head.
I thought wow, my cousin's a badass! And she was… She raced motocross and was one of the first girls on the island to do so. Her room walls were lined with trophies from competitions
on and off the island. She was a badass. And she still is!
She has tamed down her crazy side, swapping in her motorcycle for her mom car with two car seats in the back. She swapped late nights partying with me, Mike and all his friends in high school, for late nights taking care of her babies. She swapped the ridiculously high slippers and heels that she would wear for comfortable shoes. She swapped shopping sprees on clothes and accessories for herself, for food and toy shopping for her kids :) She has created a beautiful life for herself and a healthy, fun loving family. I love them all, with all of my heart!
Some snap shots from the wedding:
(from friends and family- not mine)